Looking out for someone matters.

You don’t have to have the perfect words. Being there, asking, and helping them reach support is enough.

  1. Ask.

    “I’ve noticed you haven’t seemed yourself. How are you going?”

  2. Listen.

    Don’t rush to fix it. Let them talk.

  3. Encourage help.

    Sit with them while they call, or go with them to a GP or the nearest hospital.

  4. Look after you.

    Supporting someone is heavy. Lifeline can talk with you too.

Add your state’s mental health line

If they are unsafe at home

1800RESPECT can help with domestic, family and sexual violence. If they are in immediate danger, call 000.

This is a starting point and a directory. It is not a health service, not a crisis team, and not a substitute for 000. Free to use. No ads, no account, nothing stored. You do not need to share your name.

Numbers can change. If a line fails, call 000 or 13 11 14.

Emergency 000Lifeline 13 11 14

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